Age 56, of White Bear Lake, died December 24, 2022. Preceded in death by mother Joan Trebesch; father Daniel Ross; and sister-in-law Lucy Hendrickson. Survived by husband Patrick; son Jonathan Nilan (Danielle Moews); grandchildren Chance Nilan and Zoelle Moews; step-father William Trebesch; sisters and brothers Jeff Ross, Chad (Laura) Trebesch, Kelly (Dale) Sellner, Brett (Tammy Ellanson) Trebesch, and Jody (Scott) Wills; also other relatives and friends. Mass of Christian Burial 10 AM Thursday, January 5, 2023, at the Church of the Assumption, 51 W. 7th Street, Downtown St. Paul. Visitation 1 hour before the Mass. Memorial preferred the National Lupus Foundation.